May 30, 2012

The One

I must say that finding "The One" in life is always a challenge , but when you fall in love with the one it seems as if they are undecided to what they want in life or confused about hows things starts to evolve within each others circle. I'm happy to say that i have found the one for me and has been the one for the last four and a half years. I must admit that some in my family disagree with the person that i chose to spend my life with because of their standards, but in my eyes i couldn't ask for more. I know that i have something that most men crave to have or a feeling that most men want but cant express those things until the relationship has taken a bad turn. These are the things that happen in life and god does not lay dates on his blessings, he just let life unfold and handle every situation before hand for all us humaneness. I'm happy to say that I'm in love with a woman who loves me dearly an return.  So if you know she/ he's the one for you, just hang in there through the rough times in the beginning and everything else will began to slowly progress towards until love withdraws or gets deeper.

May 29, 2012

Climate Control

As the day passes us by everyday, we learn to adjust to the climate of life. The way we think, feel, and pursue things can be affected by the types of weather we experience in life.

May 27, 2012

More to Know

As you get older in life, it seem we mature and began to grasp life course. We may stumble or fall here and there, but life for us become more cherish-able. It gives us a better understanding of life and it's meaning. The little things we mauy have overlooked before began to present itself in a pure visual. We live to love everyday while laughing to smile. There are plenty things we have yet to discover because each day we are blessed to live, we learn new things.

May 26, 2012

Frustration

Frustration is the epitome of lack of understanding between both parties. Learning how to deal with new issues and talking through old ones is the first step of gaining understanding in a
A relationship. Life is full of changes , but making it through the tough times will be worthwhile if it’s ment to be.

May 25, 2012

Happiness

Happiness comes from a feeling that you get in the depth of your stomach that some how flows through each vein of muscle in your body. These are the true signals of why we live to love. Happiness is the way of life although we face troubles times, but keeping your spirit alive and staying positive will bring you more peace and a everlasting smile.

May 24, 2012

Changes of Love

I have always been one who enjoy the way love feels once it has been experienced throughout life expressions! I have also experienced the changes of love  for your companion or spouse. I have learned that love never leaves a person heart or mind, it just takes a new identity. Changes of love occurs daily throughout relationships but never present itself unless a conflict between both parties has began to strike. These are the times when love changes but never leave the soul. Although words of pain has been expressed, loves never leaves but change it's form. Whether it's a positive or negative ending.

May 23, 2012

One Good Reason to Stay

No matter what experiences you and your partner has been through, going through, or maybe even an ongoing conflict that keep you guys attitude pumping. There will always be a reason not to leave when you are deeply in love that person. When your heart agrees with your brain and create a firm nderstanding of what love really means or should be like. Thaere are plenty reasons to leave, but there's only one good reason to stay, and that's feelings of those who are soul mates.

May 22, 2012

That Feeling You Just Cant Shake

You know that feeling you get when all else fail and a breathe of fresh air presents itself as self comfort begins to grow into apparent comfortableness. The feeling that you get when your companion touches your hand or hugs you with a firm grip while staring into your eyes admiring your much attractive features. The feeling that lingers amongst your mind that sends your brain signals into a state of “frozen love.” The type of feeling that moves not only your soul, but spirit as well while developing a  love tunnel. The feelings that we try to hide but still appear within our smile or actions. The feeling of being wanted, needed, and loved by the second is a only a tradition of love, but also states that one feeling you just cant shake.

Loving Someone When It Hutrs

Loving someone when the inner organ of your stomach is filled with pain from thoughts of deception, or maybe even intuitions starts to sink in and make the situation more worse than whats really at hand. When you know in your mind that leaving the relationship is almost a choice of desire out of fueled anger. Being Imperfect is the closest thing to perfect any human living will ever be able to experience in life because we all make mistakes and hopefully learn and better from them. I must say that loving someone when it hurts can either mean discontinuing the relationship with that person and still have strong unconditional feelings for them or being sympathetic and has a soft hear to someone who has really put them through stressful situations, but willing to stand strong and make things work. If you feel that the only reason you’re in a relationship is because you feel that person by leaving, then get out of that relationship because your happiness would be soon deserted and your feelings will become more frustrating to accept the truth is that it’s time to let go and finally live a healthy life that makes you happy.

THINK THINGS OVER

Have you ever thought of the little things in life that connect us human to one another. I often see people going over the moon and back to somewhat express the dept of emotions that he/she has for their partner/spouse. I personally think that the material perspective only captures a person heart for all the wrong reasons and eventually catches up and ending on a dead end road with nowhere to go. I highly recommend taking a look at the inner being of a person heart rather than the material route.  Thinking things over in the beginning helps saves a lot of time and stress for future disputes!

May 18, 2012

Morning Thoughts

As i awake each day to a world full of complicated scenarios dealing with family, love, and life. I always find myself wondering off in thought of ways to better my relationship or ease the load off a stressful situation. I have learned over the years that you cant resolve a conflict with a conflict. often, listening to your partner and hearing them out could go a long way in the long run rather than screaming at each other with meaningless comments or provocative language. Instead. think of ways that you and your partner could come to an agreement that fit both of you guys well.

Couples Retreat "Me" Time

There comes a time in life where certain things in relationships are going to get to a point where frustration will become greater, attitudes will become more aggressive and Stress will began to create itself out of  lack of  "ME" Time. Kids began to grow and ask some of the strangest questions that may have you pulling your hair out of your skull's core. Why?, i  don't know but kids do say the darn est things sometimes. It could be school  or maybe even your neighbors music was disturbing your peace of mind. Whatever the situation may be,  I have learned over the years that in any relationship you are fully committed to, spending alone time will absolutely eliminate the daily stress measures of life and bring some sort of relief to any intensive situation couple wise. a lot of times with work,  kids, and priority list being overwhelmed, ninety percent of the times taking the load off and spending time with the person you fell in love with eases the tension and makes going forward an easy process. I highly recommend that more couples try more "ME" time, not meaning being in a secluded corner by yourself  or locked in a room to where the kids cant enter!  No,  when i refer to "ME" time it is to where couples send the kids away for a day or two and rekindle the love that first brought you two together in life while remembering your togetherness purpose!