Insufficient Love

When love has lost it's meaning, value, or sends no signals to the heart to revive the spirit of ones soul. The love between each other has then become, Insufficient to feelings of the significant other. The passion is no longer there to evolve a stronger relationship. How can you even be considered  a couple, when there is no spark or joy amongst each other. there is no room for love when time has dispensed all of its feelings and ones heart has been barely pumping holding on to the thought of even making it work.. The love has become insufficient.

These Feelings

These feelings are the ones that touches the  center of a persons SOUL.

The feeling that love has been forgotten and a heart has been turned COLD.

The feeling of emptiness inside with no fresh air to inhale as the wind BLOW.

The feeling of a rainy day and sad thoughts as the rain runs down my WINDOW.

These feelings are real feelings mixed with emotional  feelings.

These feelings are the last feelings while revealing true feelings

Love Ones Lost

It's never a good feeling to experience a passing of one of your close family members, friends, or someone you knew and loved dearly. Life throws all sorts of obstacles our way , but it's really how we activate our reactions to counter those obstacles. It took me a long time to realize and truly understand the meaning. We have to look at life in a prospective of happiness and understand that the person who is no longer with us is in a better place where pain no longer exist, debt is no longer a matter, and living is purer than it's ever been versus the world we live in today. allot of senseless acts of violence worldwide and country wide is now staring to expand as the time passes each day and occurs more as the problems of the world evolves. People be who you are and let nothing come in between you and your life long goals. The power of life long goals will guide you through life with a clear and focus mind to pursue any dream within your motivation. Live life and enjoy the moments while we are here, because when its all said and done, everyone life has a beginning and ending point.

Words of Encouragement

These are the days we cherish the most, being able to watch our kids grow to become some of the most creative little boys and girls. These are the days that our kids remember us for their upbringing as a child upon reaching their adulthood years. Being there now is more important than being there later in today's world/way of living. We must push ourselves as parent to be more role models as well as friends to our young youth because as a parent , there is no limit in your child's memory.


P.S.  Love stems a long way with a with perceptions<3

Sparks in the Bedroom

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Invincible Love (Poetry)

Invincible love,
The thoughts of your heart at my grasp taps into the emotional depth of my soul
like when we touch, hug, kiss, make love, oh how i love the fragrance of your smell on my clothes
Invincible love,
The love you cant see but feel completely through
like when your heart skip a beat at the moment of love presence you never knew
Invincible love,
The love that you don’t have to search for because you know its there within
So with all love possibilities in life,  i enjoy the invincible love my friend.
Invincible love,

Proud to be a father

I must say that I'm the most happiest father alive today! My kids made me a Homemade strawberry birthday cake that taste so delicious. I wouldn't trade that for a Million dollars because it's so priceless to see my kids wanting to see me smile and be happy on my birthday. I can't express the way my heart feel, but I must say that I'm proud to be a father!

Happy Birthday to Me ;)

A day that's filled with joy and love for me and my family. I'm happy to have reached another birthday and a new year. I would like to thank all my readers who enjoy reading my blog thus far, and look forward to hearing your thoughts in the near future. Love Perception is not only about topics of love but is open for different topics of choice. If there's anyone with topic requests, please email them to LovePerceptions@yahoo.com. Again I would like to say thanks and until my next blog entry. Peace, life and Love Perception!

Love or Riches "Whats Your Motive"

 I have often seen numerous of people engaging in relationships just because of a person financial situation, whether its seeking stability of being financially secure or searching for what we all know as the "Dream Mate". I can now count on one hand using only two people that i know personally still together today. The reason being is that money doesn't always solve the problem, it only prolongs the matter longer. This will only lead to an unhealthy relationship that is one-sided with emotions. Although it may seem all put together at first, the light will began to show itself once all the lies have worn themselves out. Love should always be a first choice, because without a feeling to express to your mate, there's no reason to continue the relationship.

Fighting to stay

Sometimes fighting to stay with someone you love but no longer have feelings for can be tough to deal with or process. In most cases this will pan itself out , but in majority of cases this will only lead to lies, dishonesty and loss of trust in one another. I must admit that the world has plenty of temptations or tempting measures to test our strength of love, but only the strongest can pull through. I mean when u really love someone to the point that it hurts to see them away from you. There shouldn't be any worldly manner to pursue you to cheat on that person. Although it may seem to be fulfilling of the moment of anger, but when it's all said and done it won't change the way your heart feels. I'm a true believer of being honest at all times no matter what the situation may be, but it has to come from both parties to really be understood at that level of a relationship. When you have done all you can to keep things together and feel there's no other reason to continue on, then believe me when I say those thoughts were brought upon you for a reason. Listen to them or end up on the short end of the love stick. This is likely the situation when the relationship has come to a dead end road. So when all the fight in you has exhausted it's use, then it's time to move on.

God will see you through

It seems as if we all are faced with the troubles of today's economy with the rising cost of food, gas, and utility bills almost everyday. I would be the first to say that I have had my fair share of problems but standing firm in these times strengthens a relationship. I must say that until the prices have risen, we have regained sight on whats important in life. Feeling loved and wanted by family members can always shed a light of hope on relationships or whatever the situation may be. Letting go and letting god continue to overlook your life and trusting in him that everything will be fine at the end of the day if u just maintain your faith when life has thrown every unexacting curve at you. Remain strong and god will see you through as long as you trust and believe in him.

Basketball Interpreted into Relationships

I was watching the game last night, of course the NBA finals and realized how much the players have love for the game of basketball. Throughout the whole season the guys have had to deal with off court battles and court side critiques and realized that basketball could be interpreted into relationships. I only say this not because of the movie "Love and Basketball" but in a sense to where in order to accomplish a goal u have to have trust one another and not try to one side/selfish play. In this terminology of basketball it's call ball Hoggin and in relationships it's call selfishness or acting greater than your lover. I guess what I'm tryin to say is, in every relationship whether u have kids or not. Team work always overcome ones feel to be a hero or closer. I know some may disagree but overall it's the truth of life.

New Ways to Express Love

Everyday gives us a opportunity to find better ways to love someone. I think changing the way we express our feelings and showing a person how much we care each day, really strengthen the love to be expressed towards one another. So don't be afraid to step out the box and try new ways to love someone. Life is only what we make it, and love is only how we express it.

Through it All

Sometimes swallowing your pride goes a long way in a relationship. Sometimes keep quiet and listening to what your partner has to say fully keeps the conflict of interest down at a low level . Life throws multiple challenges especially while in relationships , it just take a honest trustworthy special person to be able to come to grips and stand firm when those times present itself. Playing the mellow role will bring more peace yo you and your partner. There's a reason why that special someone awake every morning by your side and remains in your life through thick and thin. When a person has become content with what life has to offer, it opens a special place within.

Wonders of My Mind

WONDERS OF MY MIND

LETS ME KNOW THERE'S MORE TO COME

WHEN MY EYES ARE FULL CLOSED

AND THE WIND HAS FULLY PASSED MY LUNGS

THROUGH EVERY ORGAN OF MY BODY

WITH EVERY STRENGTH OF MUSCLE WITHIN

DESIRE OF LIFE DEVELOPS

AND SHOWS THROUGHOUT MY GRIN

NO PRICE SHALL TAKE MY LOVE

NO LUST SHALL BREAK MY LOVE

BUT SOULS CONNECTED AS ONE

AND PASSIONS OF MY LIFE MAKES MY LOVE

LESSONS OF LIFE HAS SHOWN ME PAIN

IN SEVERAL WAYS

LIKE A HEART IS FOR LOVING

AND DISHONESTY OF SELF, WHO'S TO BLAME

ONLY TIME WILL TELL OR TELL WHEN THERE'S NO MORE TIME

BUT STILL IN MY THOUGHTS ARE THE WONDERS OF MY MIND

Sex relieves stress

I thought I'd post a blog speaking on how sex could relieve so much tension through the body and create a happy feeling for both parties. A man can only go without sex for one or two days at the Max but a woman can hold back until her hormones began to rise and crave for sex. I think sex on a regular would please any man and keep his focus on one woman, but not giving a man sex could turn his attention to other more attractive and sex appealing women. I know this from the repeated facts of life. So yes everybody..sex is healthy for you and you partner.

The Real You

Allot of people tend to be the Charmer/Cupid that we seek and long for when first getting to know someone, but in reality, its just them trying to see where they might impact the most in your life or ways they can maintain your comfort level around them. In a way, this really isn't a bad gesture but on the same ticket it could suggest false hopes in the future. I often find that being the real you upfront leaves room for a trustworthy and healthy relationship.

The Right Time

There's never really a right time, just times to make things right or better. The decisions we make in life are based on a distinctive feel that overwhelms us. I know some may disagree , but the heart never lie and your mind is always at war with your heart because of these feelings. I think we all have bar timing when it come to relationship issues or marital problems. I think this is true because when a married couple is at it's last leg , they seek counseling to save their relationship, but on the other hand, dies counseling really work? In my eyes no. Because a couple should be able to express their concerns with their significant other before using a mediator. I only say this because theres always time to to speak out your differences with you companion.

Forever More

Dreaming of days where the sun has settled upon us and the wind has caressed the skin of her body from the thrill of the summer breeze. Forever she would fall in love, but more in live with a peace of mind and tension relief. For it won't be long but forever more cherished!

The One

I must say that finding "The One" in life is always a challenge , but when you fall in love with the one it seems as if they are undecided to what they want in life or confused about hows things starts to evolve within each others circle. I'm happy to say that i have found the one for me and has been the one for the last four and a half years. I must admit that some in my family disagree with the person that i chose to spend my life with because of their standards, but in my eyes i couldn't ask for more. I know that i have something that most men crave to have or a feeling that most men want but cant express those things until the relationship has taken a bad turn. These are the things that happen in life and god does not lay dates on his blessings, he just let life unfold and handle every situation before hand for all us humaneness. I'm happy to say that I'm in love with a woman who loves me dearly an return.  So if you know she/ he's the one for you, just hang in there through the rough times in the beginning and everything else will began to slowly progress towards until love withdraws or gets deeper.