Proud to be a father

I must say that I'm the most happiest father alive today! My kids made me a Homemade strawberry birthday cake that taste so delicious. I wouldn't trade that for a Million dollars because it's so priceless to see my kids wanting to see me smile and be happy on my birthday. I can't express the way my heart feel, but I must say that I'm proud to be a father!

Happy Birthday to Me ;)

A day that's filled with joy and love for me and my family. I'm happy to have reached another birthday and a new year. I would like to thank all my readers who enjoy reading my blog thus far, and look forward to hearing your thoughts in the near future. Love Perception is not only about topics of love but is open for different topics of choice. If there's anyone with topic requests, please email them to LovePerceptions@yahoo.com. Again I would like to say thanks and until my next blog entry. Peace, life and Love Perception!

Love or Riches "Whats Your Motive"

 I have often seen numerous of people engaging in relationships just because of a person financial situation, whether its seeking stability of being financially secure or searching for what we all know as the "Dream Mate". I can now count on one hand using only two people that i know personally still together today. The reason being is that money doesn't always solve the problem, it only prolongs the matter longer. This will only lead to an unhealthy relationship that is one-sided with emotions. Although it may seem all put together at first, the light will began to show itself once all the lies have worn themselves out. Love should always be a first choice, because without a feeling to express to your mate, there's no reason to continue the relationship.

Colorado "batman" Tragedy

I just wanted to step off topic for a while and express my condolence to the victims family of this tragedy that has taken place in CO this past week. I can't began to even put myself in their shoes for one complete day because losing people, especially someone close to a stupid act of violence is such a disgrace to humanity. I looked at the guy who committed such acts and saw a coward who only seeked more attention from his family and took it out on innocent victims. What have this world come to be with times being hard as they are already and now this. I feel like the law has let the people of Colorado down due to letting this man order this much ammunition through mail to create such terrorist acts. This just shows how much safety our country has to let such things occur right through it's mail system. I have children and to think that a six year old was killed during this vicious act is such a sad feeling. I don't wish death on nobody, but this cause for the death penalty. He knew what he was doing and had no regrets. He also knew the innocence of all the people who was at the theater that night. We as humans whether mentally Ill or not have a brain and a thought process. I don't think letting him plead insanity is an option. How can someone working on a PHD be insane. Because if that was the case, I would die before I take a doctor visit. The media gives this man so much attention as if he played joker in previous batman movies and that saddens me deeply. To all the people I pray this country come together and learn to love and walk in Jesus footsteps, because instead of fighting war on terror, we will be fighting war in United States of America.

Keeping a positive mindstate

No matter what we go through in life, we always seem to overcome any situation with faith and positive thinking. Positive thinking leads to a positive vibe in which then creates a positive atmosphere. I know that certain things happen unexpectedly and catches is off guard , but learning to stay strong is something that could ease the mind and sooth the soul. Life has it's trials and tribulations, whether it's finding a job or living circumstances has changed dramatically, there will Always be a brighter light at the end of the tunnel.

Fighting to stay

Sometimes fighting to stay with someone you love but no longer have feelings for can be tough to deal with or process. In most cases this will pan itself out , but in majority of cases this will only lead to lies, dishonesty and loss of trust in one another. I must admit that the world has plenty of temptations or tempting measures to test our strength of love, but only the strongest can pull through. I mean when u really love someone to the point that it hurts to see them away from you. There shouldn't be any worldly manner to pursue you to cheat on that person. Although it may seem to be fulfilling of the moment of anger, but when it's all said and done it won't change the way your heart feels. I'm a true believer of being honest at all times no matter what the situation may be, but it has to come from both parties to really be understood at that level of a relationship. When you have done all you can to keep things together and feel there's no other reason to continue on, then believe me when I say those thoughts were brought upon you for a reason. Listen to them or end up on the short end of the love stick. This is likely the situation when the relationship has come to a dead end road. So when all the fight in you has exhausted it's use, then it's time to move on.

God will see you through

It seems as if we all are faced with the troubles of today's economy with the rising cost of food, gas, and utility bills almost everyday. I would be the first to say that I have had my fair share of problems but standing firm in these times strengthens a relationship. I must say that until the prices have risen, we have regained sight on whats important in life. Feeling loved and wanted by family members can always shed a light of hope on relationships or whatever the situation may be. Letting go and letting god continue to overlook your life and trusting in him that everything will be fine at the end of the day if u just maintain your faith when life has thrown every unexacting curve at you. Remain strong and god will see you through as long as you trust and believe in him.

Basketball Interpreted into Relationships

I was watching the game last night, of course the NBA finals and realized how much the players have love for the game of basketball. Throughout the whole season the guys have had to deal with off court battles and court side critiques and realized that basketball could be interpreted into relationships. I only say this not because of the movie "Love and Basketball" but in a sense to where in order to accomplish a goal u have to have trust one another and not try to one side/selfish play. In this terminology of basketball it's call ball Hoggin and in relationships it's call selfishness or acting greater than your lover. I guess what I'm tryin to say is, in every relationship whether u have kids or not. Team work always overcome ones feel to be a hero or closer. I know some may disagree but overall it's the truth of life.

New Ways to Express Love

Everyday gives us a opportunity to find better ways to love someone. I think changing the way we express our feelings and showing a person how much we care each day, really strengthen the love to be expressed towards one another. So don't be afraid to step out the box and try new ways to love someone. Life is only what we make it, and love is only how we express it.

Through it All

Sometimes swallowing your pride goes a long way in a relationship. Sometimes keep quiet and listening to what your partner has to say fully keeps the conflict of interest down at a low level . Life throws multiple challenges especially while in relationships , it just take a honest trustworthy special person to be able to come to grips and stand firm when those times present itself. Playing the mellow role will bring more peace yo you and your partner. There's a reason why that special someone awake every morning by your side and remains in your life through thick and thin. When a person has become content with what life has to offer, it opens a special place within.